Monday, October 24, 2011

Quick Trip to STL

I had such a great time this past weekend when I visited St. Louis!  Going back to the Midwest for a quick trip made me realize how much I miss all that it has to offer.  From the fall colors, to the crispness of the air, to the red-brick architecture of the city, I have learned to appreciate all of these things when I get to see them.  It's weird that the football season in California isn't paired with visiting corn mazes, wearing hoodies while jogging, and raking all those leaves!

The trip itself though was great - I saw Melissa's apartment out in Kirkwood and we cooked an awesome white chicken chili with her roommate, which was then followed by game night!  We also carved SLU pumpkin (now a tradition in it's second year... haha) and had a great Italian dinner at a restaurant I can't pronounce - but the bruschetta was delish!

I also got to hang with Ian and Brian at their apartment and watch the Cardinals World Series game.  It's so easy to get right back into friendships after time apart and I'm so happy that they are kicking butt at SLU med and still haven't lost all of their hair due to stress!  It's a bit bittersweet to be back at SLU just as a visitor, but I do feel energized as I come back to LA to continue working in JVC.

St. Louis will always be a home to me, but for the time being, it's nice to have so many friends and family across the US that I can feel welcome pretty much wherever I go.


PS:  here is a picture of the pumpkin Melissa and I carved.  With my creativity and her precise carving technique, it's an unstoppable pumpkin carving team!     

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

Urban Plunge to Skid Row

This past weekend I was one of the chaperones on an urban plunge retreat where the students do work throughout Skid Row and other centers of the homeless population.  The first night, we served a spaghetti dinner to 80 homeless men and then conversed at the tables as we ate.  It was grateful for my Spanish as I was able to talk with them about their lives and learn about thier daily struggles.

The following morning, we served breakfast at another homeless shelter, and then took a tour of Skid Row.  For those who don't know, Skid Row is an area next to downtown Los Angeles where many homeless live.  Tents on the sidewalks, cardboard shantys, and shopping carts full of their life's possessions are some of the most common sites.  After the tour, we served dinner at the Midnight Mission, a shelter that serves over 800 people a meal.  At this site, we met Jim, a well-mannered and professional tour guide.  He also is a recovering alcholic and was homeless for the past 10 years before turning his life around.

Perhaps the most important thing I learned from his story is that to be chronically homeless does not mean that the person is lazy.  I always knew this, but it's so easy to think- why don't they just go get a job?  The majority of this population suffers from extreme mental illness, drug and alchol addiction, and lack of friend and familial support.  Another huge obstacle is the availability of affordable housing, which is definied as costing 30% of one's income.  Many of the homeless actually do have jobs or some source of income, but in Los Angeles, as with other major cities, housing costs much more than this 30%, so savings are not feasable. 

In spite of these obstacels, it was so impressive to see how Jim was able to escape the viscious cycle of his addiction and condition.  The Midnight Mission offers affordable houseing, dorm style, for men who are willing to get clean from drugs and alcohol.  Additionally, they are given jobs throughout the organization or in the city, and this helps subsidize their rent.  Lastly, it is a requirement that they save 70% of their earnings so that when they leave the program, they have saved enough money to make a down-payment.  The skills they learned working at the organization also translate into earning jobs outside Skid Row.  The model of Midnight Mission teaches self sufficiency and responsibility.  The men take pride that they can earn money to pay for their dorm style housing.  Jim spoke of maintaing dignity while on Skid Row - these men need to give something back to the charity received in order to discover the value in themselves. 

I realized that for the chronically homeless, some will never walk through the doors to recieve the same help that Jim did.  They simply have been homeless for too long that their mental state makes it impossible for a life beyond Skid Row.  However, many others who have found themselves tired of being at the 'rock - bottom' can find hope in these organizations.  Those people at non-profits tirelessly work to provide the resources and opportunities for people to learn to help themselves. 

 

Saturday, October 1, 2011

a bit of wisdom from the landlord

When cleaning the house the other day, I had an encounter with a creepy guest - a California cockroach.  It was dead, but still large enough to make my housemates freak out. Personally, I thought it was cool looking, so I had no problem sweeping it up and throwing it outside.  Now anyone who knows me could attest to the fact I don't get unnerved by many things, but spiders and I do not get along.  They are creepy, can hang near face-level, and should just stay out of my line of sight (and science textbooks as well!). 

However, when the landlord came over to check on things last night, he had a bit of wisdom that may change my perception of spiders.  When I told him about finding the cockroach, he said to be extra diligent about keeping the doors closed and picking up all food scraps and crumbs.  He said they live around conditions that are not the cleanest, and if you try to kill one, it moves extremely fast, often toward you!  If you step on it, well.... let's just say it may be a bit gooey.

The landlord then elaborated how spiders are actually much better house guests.  I always knew they keep other bugs away, but the presence of spiders does not necessarily mean the house is dirty.  They just set up residence in low-traffic areas.  If you try to kill one, it moves fairly slowly and never toward you.  Lastly, when killed, the spider is ever the gentleman because it curls up nicely with no residue as if saying "good game mate, you won, so I'll make cleanup easier for you!" 

Even though this all makes perfect sense, does this mean I'm magically ok with our so called eight legged friends?   ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!!!